What if you could wake up each day smiling in the face of the challenges ahead of you? What if your health challenges were seen as an obstacle course to play through instead of a ten foot tall brick wall blocking your future? What if happiness through it all was possible?
Having a chronic illness or disability can be difficult. Having a chronic illness as a Mom can be totally overwhelming! We need to adapt to; symptoms, medications & their side effects, medical equipment and the way people respond to that equipment, and many other things. That, along with the energy we use being a Mom can be really tough. I’ve noticed that some people struggle with it all, while others seem to stroll through their life with a smile on their face.
I’m all about happiness! So, I’ve been focusing on those around me who deal with health issues in a positive way. One day recently, I started watching some of the kids at a pediatric therapy center where my kiddos went to play. That’s where I learned the secret.
Here are some of the things I’ve learned about children with special needs. (I want to wake up every day with their attitude):
- Young children with special needs aren’t embarrassed to have their diagnosis.
- Young children with special needs don’t feel guilty for being sick/challenged.
- Young children with special needs don’t judge anyone.
- They like everyone and want to be friends.
- They have reasonable expectations for themselves.
- They are willing to try do to do things we might not think they can do, and often succeed.
- They don’t pity themselves
- They don’t blame others for their problems.
- They have the biggest, most authentic smiles.
- They push themselves to be the best they can be without focusing on the difficulty getting there.
- They believe they are great.
- They are great.
- They see their wheelchair/walker/braces as just part of makes them “them.”
- They hope, and plan for, the future, a future as bright as anyone else’s.
- Therapy is fun for them…PT, OT, Speech… they can’t wait to go and succeed.
We need to view our challenges through the eyes of our children. If we believe in ourselves and focus on the positive, we will overcome great odds. We will feel better and live happier. We can be miracles to!
Do you want to learn how to have fun again? Has your life become a boring pile of to-do lists? Check out the new book coming out in June by Jen Hardy, “The Sick Mom’s Guide® to Having Fun Again: If I can do it, you can too!” at www.thesickmomsguide.com